so god damn true. -_-
A few days ago my mom finally admitted that she was an alcoholic and that just put everything into perspective for me, my family is falling apart my parents are divorcing and all I keep thinking is what reason could god have for letting this happen to me. What am I supposed to learn from this what is supposed to come out of it but I guess that I will just have to wait and see what happens. But I always try to remember not to cry and to never let things like this get me down and that I always have god on my side and laughter. For some reason laughter always makes the day a little bit better.
Its really sad how make friends you make when you get a little money. New people come into your life and people who were friends that you don’t want anything to do with anymore just show up and expect you to become best friends again. Let me think………………………………………ummmmmmm NO! #suchashame
Its always the hardest thing to find in life where you belong, what you should do, which way to turn, who can help steer you in,the right way. But there only one voice you listen to your own and Gods.
Respect a Lady.
Treat her like you would want a man to treat your sister. In other words, treat her as a person, not an object. Treat her like a princess and always try to give her comments that make her feel better about herself, rather than put her down.
Listen to her opinions and ideas. Appreciate her as she is, and never underestimate her intelligence. Treat her as an equal. Call her in advance to make plans to go out and never assume that she doesn’t have anything better already scheduled..
Listen to her and respond in a non-condescending manner. Be there for her if she’s crying or upset by holding her. Compliment her. If you think she is beautiful say it! “Beautiful” is so much more respectful than “hot”, it show’s you see a lot deeper than the surface. Love and learn to appreciate her for who she is, as well as her body type. Don’t try and change her physically, just love her natural beauty.
Hold hands with her on the street. Don’t be ashamed to be romantic and when you meet up with your friends, introduce her. Don’t ever cheat on her… talk things through.
Be a gentleman! Look out for her feelings. Accept her values/morals. Be interested in her life! Ask her what’s going on, be helpful, never put her down. If she’s wrong don’t go out of your way to prove her. Be nice and treat her like she is special. Don’t push her to do things she is not ready for. Treat her with respect and pay attention to the small things, coz even if it doesn’t look like it, most of the time those small things really mean a lot..
Don’t put her down, or make her feel uncomfortable when you are hanging out together with your friends or your parents. Stand up for her! If one of your friends puts her down, confront them and tell them that it is not okay. And always fight for her and defend her honor, till your last dying breath.
Why are men so afraid of there feelings, I’m feeling things doesn’t make you weak, keepings things bottled up will only make it take longer for you to let everything out and when you do it will be on someone you don’t me to let it lose on. Its like old faithful you know it will blow, you just don’t know who’ll be there to see it.
Everyone wishes they had more time to do everything in there life and time to redo things, I know I do but if you were able to go back and change things you would be a different person from the person you are today…… lost not knowing where you are or where your supposed to go, left there wondering WHO AM I, Where am I, and How do I get there.The most important things in life is time how your spending it NOW, and what you learned from that past that you so desire to change, and how it has made you the person you are today. Moving forward in time, know there will be hurt, and pain along the way but be able to see the later in life it will help somehow, in someway and you will be thankful for your life every part.